Motivation to grow

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Personal Motivations to grow

Some people are totally charged up about what they do and where they are going, whilst others feel that each day is something of a trial and growth and development is a burden. Where are you in this? Do you love what you do each day?

For many people their personal strengths, knowledge and expertise may have been programmed into them. They end up in a particular career path, working for a particular type of organisation because, from an early age, other people (parents, teachers, mentors) influenced their choices.

Some people are in a particular career because this is what they studied to do. Sadly, this does not necessarily mean that they enjoy doing it. Of course, every career has some elements that we enjoy less than others but what is the right balance for you?

We can assess our strengths and weaknesses further by rating out of 10 for each activity within a job against two questions:

  1. How much long-term benefit or meaning did I experience from this activity?
  2. How much short-term happiness or satisfaction did I experience from this activity?

There are no “right” answers to these questions and your rating score is entirely down to you (by all means keep changing it until you work out what is really a 10, and what is really a 1)

Consider your current job (or whatever you are doing now) and take a typical day (a week if you change what you do each day) and record what you do, for how long and what score out of ten you give that activity against the two questions.

For example, you may spend 3 hours in meetings, 1 hour traveling to and from work, 90 minutes on emails, 30 minutes surfing the net searching for information, 30 minutes in the coffee-room, an hour for lunch, 2 hours preparing a presentation, 30 minutes on phone calls to clients. This might look something like this:

personal motivations template example

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Remember, this is just an example, you can break it down further and of course, you will have more distinct activities in your day.

The benefit of doing this is that you quickly identify the activities that you enjoy doing the most and those that bring you the most benefit. Searching the Internet for example, can be very satisfactory in the short-term, especially if you are searching for something in your area of interest. But half an hour can disappear with little to show in actual useful long-term results.

In an ideal perfect world, we would find great short-term happiness in everything we do and each reaps long-term benefit. In reality, we all do things that run short of the perfect score for us, but the more we can get the balance and the higher the better. For high performance you do those things that bring the greatest long-term benefit in the shortest time. For most fun you do those things that bring the greatest happiness over the longest period of time. In the end, it’s your choice but the better the overall balance the more likely you are to enjoy each and every day.
You can then plot your regular activities on a chart like the one above. Which activities are Surviving, which stimulating, sacrificing  succeeding or are they sustaining?
Taking the example above, these activities would be something like this:
activities and where you live
  • Where is your personal growth and development time?
If you are sacrificing now, then you'll need to be sure that you keep it up and break it down into smaller wins (which will increase short-term happiness). If it's in Succeeding, great. Anywhere else… then you are very likely to give up when the hard work kicks in or when there are setbacks. Then you probably need someone else to help you.
And of course, in a perfect world you would get everything you do into the succeeding quadrant. When everything that you do you do so very happily and everything brings a long-term benefit.
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